The Multi-Tasking Delusion

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Huda is so proud of her ability to answer emails, take calls on her cell, do leg extension exercises, and enjoy a leisurely meal with an old friend – all at the same time.  She calls herself the “multi-tasking queen”.  I call her delusional.  But she can take it from me – as long as I explain what I mean.

I’m not a neuro-scientist, but I do know that our brains are designed by Allah SWT to filter out most stimuli, and to generalize what does come in.  It is designed to  only focus on one thing at one time – and a recent study by a famous neurologist (how I wish I could remember his name or where I saw his article – I know, I know, note to self – jot down references – I must have been ‘multi tasking’ at the time) concludes that true multi tasking is not humanly possible. 

We think it is – but the brain actually does one thing – pauses – and then does the other.  Sometimes this can happen quickly, so that you barely notice it - even though your ‘leisurely’ meal companion likely will. 

And the more we try to multi-task in too many directions (effectively shortening the ‘pause times’ between tasks), our minds begin to go haywire.  Worst case scenario –  we may “blank out,” literally becoming unable to perceive what it is we have to do.

If you’ve ever stood in a room and wondered what you came there to do, you might have experienced the dreaded ‘blank out’.  And you want to be careful – too much ‘multi tasking’ may lead to too many ‘blank outs’.  Scared, yet?

If not, trust me – multi tasking is not effective.  Honestly, if you ask these ‘so busy answering my 101 messages via every latest technology designed to imprison me and my time,’ people what it is they actually got done – it’s probably very little in comparison to if they’d actually given themselves time to focus on the task at hand – and get that done.  Then move to the next one. 

Seriously, unless you’re auditioning for a role as a circus juggler – learning to abandon you’re multi-tasking ways will give you more calm, more productivity.  And make your meal companion feel special.

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Here’s how:

Step 1:  Admit that You have a problem :)

- and no, this isn’t a 12 step process.  Maybe, I should write a book ;)   Seriously, knowledge is power and recognizing what you are doing in anything is the first course of action to changing it.

What are you currently juggling and what area do you wish that you could manage more effectively? 

Write it down (without focusing on any other task). 

Step 2:  Become the Prioritizing Queen

Your first priority should be to take some time each day to recognize what needs your attention and then rank them in order of importance.  I actually do this at night for the next day – but you can do it whenever works best for you – so long as it’s a time where you’re thinking clearly (without distractions).

Writing down what you need to do in order of importance means that you can visually see and focus on what’s most pressing, leaving less necessary items for later.  You’ll be amazed at your daily productivity if you can get this down to an art.

Step 3:  Practice Maze Puzzles

No, this isn’t another task to add to your full plate.  Do you know those maze puzzles that ask you to find a way out and you focus on finding the only route that will work?  You follow it with your pencil and once you are out – you’re done.  Depending on the complexity of the puzzle, this can be a quick, focused and productive exercise.  All of us with delusions of “multi-tasking syndrome” should practice it more.

Here’s how: 

Designate a period of time during which you will focus entirely on a task.  It doesn’t have to be long, but the time involved should be relevant to the task.  Set a timer for the amount you decide on and then start working with “getting out of the maze-like” focus until the timer goes off. 

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Practice this one exercise consistently, and you’ll thank me inshAllah.  And all the messages, projects, and people who vie for a slice in your ‘multi-tasking’ pie will thank you.

So, Huda, how about that lunch now ?

Let them eat cake:
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18 Responses to The Multi-Tasking Delusion
  1. hibahmac
    November 26, 2008 | 8:30 pm

    I saw a good article about multi-tasking too, by a top neuroscientist, that went on to say that it actually shortens your life span because it increases release of the hormone cortisol (the stress hormone) which, over time, accelerates breakdown of optimal cellular functioning.

    Yeah, prioritizing is key. Shaykh Mhmd ibn Faqih of Al-Maghrib Institute suggested “The 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management” by Hyrum W. Smith as preparation for one of his courses. I found it to be a good read and might prove beneficial for others.

    But, without consulting books and articles, the best move I have is pausing and asking “what’s more (most) important?” As long as I stick to the truth, then the more important things are done, and what can wait for tomorrow can do just that – wait for tomorrow.

  2. nabbu
    November 27, 2008 | 10:03 pm

    Great article. I do agree with the points you’ve raised. I must admit I am one among the many multi-tasking ‘queens’ out there. I’m off to forwarding this to everyone I know ;)

  3. teacher~tamara
    November 29, 2008 | 4:18 pm

    I’ve realized that when I’m in that space of multi-tasking I am also not focusing on giving 100%. Something that has worked for me is learning to delegate small tasks or chores. That way my time is utilized more effectively.

  4. Umm Hanifa
    November 29, 2008 | 8:47 pm

    This actually makes sense. I have tried both ways, the multi-tasking thing only works for me early in the morning when I have to get the kids ready as well as several other things within a certain amount of time. But going through life in this hectic state will probably get you sick sooner than later. Good job Sis. I like how I can readily apply the lessons from your writing.

  5. Heba Alshareef
    December 1, 2008 | 3:40 pm

    Welcome Umm Hanifa :) And JazakAllahu Khayraan for everyone’s insights.

    I just wanted to take this opportunity to say that I’ve been getting lots of spam comments (I’m thinking this means that we’re getting popular – so it’s not all bad, right- the power of the reframe ;) )

    so, unless you’ve posted previously, there may be a slight delay in seeing your comments here. Please don’t let this dissuade you from contributing, asking questions – et. al. I thrive on it :)

    May Allah SWT put much barakah in all that you do!
    Heba

  6. Olivia
    December 3, 2008 | 7:02 pm

    you knw my husband has this theory that women are born knowing how to multi-task (whereas of course men are not) because we’re the ones responsoble for the kids mainly and you have to know how to multitask to take care of them! this is one touchy subject with me, because even if it was possible i hate it because it totally fries you out and makes your brain feel all jumbled. i have had so many blank-out moments i can’t even count them. alhamdulillah though the answer lies with prioritizing (and making sure your kids are asleep!).

  7. Umm Junayd
    December 4, 2008 | 6:45 pm

    Ha! I must be the supreme multi-tasking queen! And I must say, it doesn’t feel like royalty when the blank-out hits. Really, I’m out to re-frame and de-task, inshaa`Allah.

    Jazaakillahu khairan Heba.

  8. Heba Alshareef
    December 5, 2008 | 1:54 pm

    UmmJunayd, I don’t know if this is totally on my brain lately – but check out the latest issue of Sisters Magazine. “The Chocolate Test” should help too inshAllah :)

    Liv, you got to move to the UK!

  9. Juli
    December 6, 2008 | 7:13 pm

    Assalamualaikum Heba,

    ahhh..I have come across this too before..only thing is I don’t know how to unmulti task :P it does stress you out a lot that I can vouch for..ya allah….couple multi tasking with a dip in estrogen, testosterone and progestrone, and you got yourself a woman who is on the brink of insanity. lol

    that’s what I am right now…

  10. Juli
    December 7, 2008 | 1:19 am

    Heba,

    I just read the Chocolate Test. Mashaallah! Love it!

    Jazakillah khair!!

  11. Heba Alshareef
    December 7, 2008 | 3:12 pm

    JazakAllahu Khayraan, Juli!
    Does it make you want to eat chocolate? It’s eid, so you can indulge :)
    And if you all have access to SISTERS magazine – you too can read it on pg. 38 :) along with Juli’s informative articles as well – although I must admit, Juli, they don’t make me wanna have another baby ;)

  12. Saba
    December 12, 2008 | 1:15 am

    Heba, Jazak Allahu Khayran for this enlightening article. It sure comes handy when doing finals…like now! :-)

    Now I cringe everytime someone says “I can multi-task” as if it’s a talent :) Alhumdulillah.

  13. Bayan
    December 12, 2008 | 1:45 am

    Truly agree! I’m in the middle of final exams and this advice gives me the boost I need :) May Allah grant us success in all our affairs..Ameen!

  14. Coach Nobera
    December 12, 2008 | 1:47 pm

    I have been the calling myself the queen of multi-tasking for a WHILE until the end of this summer. I learned many valuable lessons and dropped many of the “tasks” from multi-tasking. It’s much better now but sometimes it feels…..empty. I have some more learning to do :)

  15. Heba Alshareef
    December 13, 2008 | 3:29 pm

    I should do a ‘how to study for exams post’ – I tell ya sisters, I don’t envy you that :) May Allah make it easy for you. Just know that whatever you struggle with now – it will pass. Holidays are coming inshAllah! So until then, buckle down, do what needs to be done, drink lots of coffee, sacrifice your sleep. Work like everything depends on you. Pray like everything depends on Allah, because it does.
    Nobera, I actually just read something really interesting about the fears we have about having too much free time. Maybe I’ll write up something soon about it. SubhanAllah, the way of balance will forever remain superior.

    I pray that you all enjoyed your eid :) May Allah SWT accept from all of us.

  16. F. Pashi
    January 31, 2009 | 10:54 pm

    “If you’ve ever stood in a room and wondered what you came there to do, you might have experienced the dreaded ‘blank out’. And you want to be careful – too much ‘multi tasking’ may lead to too many ‘blank outs’.”

    About this, I do experience it – but I thought it was pregnancy brain.
    @Olivia – LOL my husband says the same, makes me think he should do more -
    can you do a post about how to make your husband help the wife more

  17. Heba Alshareef
    February 1, 2009 | 6:04 pm

    SubhanAllah, I had no clue that pregnany brain was an actual medical condition – but apparently it is. But I’ve also read that motherhood makes women smarter too.

    This, I think, as in anything, requires balance. Continually seeking and practicing balance benefits the entire family unit inshallah.

    A post to make your husband help more? LOL, that’s a book in and of itself :)

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